45% of U.S gamers admit they lack confidence in foreplay, but 30% are having sex over 4 times a week!
We at Top10Casinos.ca conducted a study revealing that over two-fifths (45%) of U.S gamers admit they lack confidence in their foreplay skills, and a third (33%) are uncomfortable discussing foreplay with their partner. In addition, over four in ten (42%) admit they're not very confident in being able to find a woman's clitoris during foreplay without guidance.
Despite this, our study shatters the celibate gamer stereotype, with 1 in 3 gamers (30%) enjoying sex 4.5 days a week on average, equating to a whopping 234 times per year. According to a recent study that appeared in the Archives of Sexual Behavior, the average U.S adult currently enjoys sex 54 times a year, which equates to about once a week. This means gamers are having 333% more sex than the average American!
In light of these findings and concluding there's a huge gap between foreplay knowledge and sexual frequency, we partnered with award-winning Nevada-based digisexuality expert, Dr. Markie Twist (PhD, LMFT, LMHC, CSE-S, Reg-COSRT) to design the ultimate gaming controller as a tool for mastering foreplay.
Dr Markie Twist says: "The idea of "play" in life and intimate relationships is essential and many people forget to "play," especially in sexual ways, and it really can be a key component to feeling closeness. Foreplay and sex should be gamified".
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REVEALED: The U.S Cities with the Most Sexually Active Gamers
Our data shatters stereotypes, revealing the U.S. cities where the most sexually active gamers live. Dallas, Texas claims the top spot with 40% of gamers reporting sex four or more times per week, with 63% saying they always priortize sex over gaming and 47% are 'extremely' confident during foreplay.
Across all cities, a significant portion (averaging 50% ) of gamers prioritize sex over gaming when a partner initiates, highlighting a desire for intimacy.
THE SWEET SPOT: Gamers who play for 3-4 hours a week have the MOST sex
Our study analyses which gamers get the most sex based on play time, revealing gamers who play for 3-4 hours have the most sex, with an average of 3.8 sexual encounters per week. This is 208% more than couples who play for 9-10 hours, who average only 1.72 encounters per week.
Dr Markie Twist (PhD, LMFT, LMHC, CSE-S, Reg-COSRT) says: "Researchers found that game playing demonstrated a positive correlation with individual, affective well-being, which also translates into relationships. 67% of couples who participate in activities and game together are more likely to stay together over the two-year study, than those who did not engage in such shared activities".
The Gender Gaming Gap
Our study uncovers a significant gender gap in prioritizing intimacy for gamers. Nearly half (49%) of female gamers say they always prioritize intimacy when a partner initiates, compared to only 36% of male gamers. However, over a third of gamers (34%) admit to rescheduling intimacy due to gaming.
What is Digisexuality?
A sexual experience that depends on the use of an advanced technology, whilst a digisexual is a person whose preferred form of sexual experiences is via immersive technologies and which need not involve a human partner.
There are two waves of digisexuality, as characterized by Dr Markie Twist (PhD, LMFT, LMHC, CSE-S, Reg-COSRT). The first wave allows for new or enhanced forms of partnered or sexual activity. This could include digital pornography, social media, online dating, web camming, sex toys, body hacking, tracking and quantification. The second wave uses immersive technology to create opportunities for new forms of sexual experience not dependent on human partners. This could include robots, artificial agents, virtual reality and augmented reality.
Tips and Tricks to Create the Ultimate Steamy Foreplay
Dr. Markie Twist (PhD, LMFT, LMHC, CSE-S, Reg-COSRT says: "Many people have a difficult time being just "ready" to do anything, including to have sex. Just like some people might not be just "ready" to enter a certain game without being warmed up or without an idea of what the terrain and the goal of the game look like going into it"
Dr. Twist continues: "For these reasons what some call "foreplay" might be sex itself, as an example. Like in gaming the terrain and the goals can look different depending on the game itself. Half the fun of gaming is exploration around prepping for the big ending and just enjoying the play, the journey if you will, itself. Foreplay can even include digisexuality like game play using tech, sex tech, each other, and your imagination. Gaming could then provide a context for intimacy developing and maintaining via these mechanisms".
Love can be defined in three interrelated parts--intimacy, passion, and commitment. It's hard for people in any relationship to fully live up to these three interrelated parts of love and yet if people are to have stable, ongoing relationships there needs to be a balancing of all three of these components within the relationship. Tools that help us to balance all three are ideal!
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Pre-Game Prep:
- Set the Stage: Create a sensual atmosphere. Think lighting, music, and comfortable surroundings. This sets the mood and signals it's "game time."
- Warm Up: Just like stretching before a match, physical touch paves the way for intimacy. Start with light touches, kisses, and cuddles. Build anticipation gradually.
- Communication is Key: Talk to your partner! Express your desires and listen to theirs. Consider foreplay as your pre-game huddle: strategize for maximum satisfaction.
- Pick Your Power-Ups: Utilize tools like massage oils, music, or even the 4-Play Pro - V Series controller. These can enhance the experience and unlock new levels of pleasure.
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Mastering the Art of Foreplay:
- Variety is the Spice of Life: Don't get stuck in a rut! Explore different erogenous zones, experiment with touch, and try new techniques. Think of it like mastering a diverse skill set in your favorite game.
- Focus on the Journey: Foreplay isn't just about the destination. Enjoy the process of exploration and connection. It's like a side quest that leads to an epic reward!
- Be Patient & Responsive: Just like some games require strategizing and adapting, foreplay takes time and responsiveness to your partner's needs. Read their signals and adjust your approach.
- Communication Continues: Don't be afraid to give feedback! Verbal or nonverbal cues can guide your partner towards what feels best. Think of it like in-game communication for a winning team.
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Methodology
- A 1,000 respondent survey was carried out using gamers from the U.S
Sources
- Defining love: Robert Sternberg (1986)
- 67% of couples who game together, stay together: Johannes et al. (2021)